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AIBU to be cross with DH?

Post  phoenix on Tue May 12, 2009 7:16 pm

It's my birthday today, and so as my "present" I don't want to cook dinner. I don't want to plan it, shop for it, prepare it, cook it, serve it and I certainly don't want to clean up from it.

I even left the entire day blank in my weekly menu, to allow DH to plan whatsoever he wants to do. I don't care if he gets takeout, I don't care if he opens a tin of soup, I don't care WHAT he serves as long as he thinks about it and sorts it out himself.

So am I being unreasonable to be peeved that he has spent all week asking me what I want to eat, refuses to even THINK about what kinds of food I like and plan it himself, hasn't shopped or done anything - and it is dinner time in 45 minutes??

I am NOT getting up and making dinner, I'm NOT.

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Post  Admin on Tue May 12, 2009 7:25 pm

YA-so-NBU!!!!

That's awful manhaviour. I'd be raging mad. I'm surprised you haven't lost the plot yet.

Happy Birthday ... and fingers crossed for a massive takeaway and wine?

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Post  Anybugger on Tue May 12, 2009 7:45 pm

As its you of course you are being Unreasonable.
In fact I have messaged Mr Phoenix and asked him to slowly starve you to death Very Happy Very Happy

In all seriousness I would be sitting in a bath now with both types of bubbles contemplating ringing a take away for 1.

Begrudging HAPPY BIRTHDAY BY THE WAY

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Post  Anybugger on Tue May 12, 2009 7:51 pm



Closest I could get to a phoenix (although it does suit!!)

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Post  sarabone on Tue May 12, 2009 9:20 pm

YANBU. He is. Totally.

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Post  Moomin76 on Tue May 12, 2009 9:37 pm

YA totally NBU! Grr to dh. It's not much to ask is it.
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Post  3for3 on Tue May 12, 2009 10:18 pm

oooh no way AYBU!!! - Happy birthday too...i hope by now there is some hint that he has this sorted...and maybe you will be surprised and a candle-lit dinner for two will have been organised with caterers or something lol

Altho if he is anything like my df - you'll be lucky to get macD's when he realised you were seriously not cooking lol
Hang in there and stick to guns you are being totally reasonable

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ps I LURVE the phrase manhaviour...i shall use that often from now on i think
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Post  dirtyqwerty on Tue May 12, 2009 11:53 pm

What's happened with this one?

He's definitely being U, if you gave him all this warning and prep time. I suppose you could have given him more explicit instructions, but why on earth should you? He's not a child!

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Post  fatcat2 on Wed May 13, 2009 12:06 am

Happy Birthday to you cheerleader

Is the dinner in the dog???? Or was he a good boy?
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Post  Mrs Big Boobs on Wed May 13, 2009 12:12 am

Happy Birthday .

YANBU

Hope he got you a good tea...
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Post  Cadiva on Wed May 13, 2009 12:39 am

Happy Birthday, hope the DH redeemed himself with something nice he'd kept a secret.
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Post  phoenix on Wed May 13, 2009 1:29 am

Ah well. We ended up ordering pizza, but I refused to clear up afterwards. He'd better improve next year lol!

Thanks for the birthday wishes group hug

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